He's Just Not That Into Me...???

So, this writer that I met online, and I have gone out with twice seems to either be done with me or maybe mad at me. Our second date was pretty fun and ended with a nice kiss. We texted occasionally after that and then last weekend he asked me to do something Sunday evening. He was in a tennis tournament Saturday and Sunday. I idiotically said yes, knowing full well that my daughter was going to be back from hanging out with her dad. I guess I was thinking maybe it would work. SO Sunday, he texted me to ask if I wanted to come over to his house and have pizza and watch football. I admit, I was a little nervous about going to his HOUSE and I wasn't too excited about football. Anyway, I said in what I thought was a witty manner that I couldn't but would love a rain check. He responded wittily and I thought all was fine.

I have texted him twice since then and no response. I can't say I am heartbroken, because I'm not. But, I did enjoy spending time with him and am sort of disappointed. He was a great email writer and texter. Very funny. Oh, well.

The software designer/ engineer guy from dinner last week emailed me and said he has his kids this weekend and is going skiing the next weekend, but would like to do something with me after all of that. He said, "Are you patient? And do you even want to go out again?" It was sort of cute. At the same time, I wonder, if you were REALLY interested wouldn't you find a way to see me before February? And... if I was REALLY interested, wouldn't I care that you don't want to see me until February. Again- Oh, well.